
Mara, I remember when you wrote about about the movie on your blog. I'd only seen it once at that time, and to be honest, I didn't really know what scene you were referring to. Even when I re-watched it, I barely caught it. She needed kindness and warmth from him, but he was utterly unable to give it. He gave what he could, but he had his limits. I think I almost missed it because I understand. I thought he was justified in what he gave and what he withheld, because I live in a place where I have already had to give too much to others at times, and that has left me drained and feeling like I have little left to give. Thus, I don't entertain grand ideas about my own generosity of heart, or that of others.